Every Man Pamela Anderson Dated and/or Married in Photos
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2023 was all about Pamela Anderson finally telling her side of the story to the world, with the release of her Netflix documentary and her memoir both coming out on Jan 31, 2023. In her Netflix documentary, Pamela: a love story, she set the record straight: she is no damsel in distress. She’s a survivor, a mother, and an author, ready to take back the image stolen from her in the 1990s.
Ever since the infamous sex tape came out, people have been trying to profit off of the image they think Anderson is all about. But in Anderson’s memoir Love: Pamela, she talks about everything from her childhood to fighting back against the haters with grace, all while sharing her life in a series of stories and poetry.
Along with her iconic time on Baywatch and her ongoing animal rights activism, Anderson is letting everyone know who she truly is — and what her experiences in Hollywood were really like. Like many stars in Hollywood, Anderson was the center of a lot of rumors, especially when it came to her love life.
So through snippets from her memoir, documentary, and past interviews, let’s take a look back. In honor of Anderson turning 57 today, on July 1, let’s look back at all of Anderson’s confirmed romances below.
‘Love, Pamela’ by Pamela Anderson
A version of this article was originally published on Jan 23, 2023.
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Jon Peters (1988-1991, 2019-2020)
Pamela Anderson originally met the A Star Is Born producer at the Playboy Mansion in the mid-1980s. They hit it off and started dating in 1988 and eventually moved in together in Los Angeles. They were reportedly together on and off from 1988 to 1991, with Peters even proposing to Anderson at one point. However, she turned Peters down due to their 22-year age difference and eventually split up for good in 1991.
But fast forward to 2020 and they ended up secretly marrying in a private ceremony in Malibu after a few months of dating. However, the marriage wasn’t legit since no marriage license was obtained and they called it off less than two weeks later, per CNN.
Recently, it was announced that he will be leaving her $10 million in his will, per People.
Confirmed Flings & Fiances
In her upcoming autobiography, Pamela Anderson revealed she had casual relationships with stars like Mario Van Peebles, David Charvet, Dean Cain, and Bret Michaels. One of those casual relationships turned a bit more serious with Scott Baio, as they were engaged (but kept their relationship very low-key from the public!)
Tommy Lee (1995-1998, 2008-2010)
Pamela Anderson and Tommy Lee had one of the most turbulent (and highly publicized) relationships of the 1990s, marrying each other in Feb 1995 after only knowing each other for four days. However, their whirlwind, fairytale-like romance began to crash down when their 1995 sex tape was released onto the internet. In an excerpt obtained by People, she wrote, “My relationship with Tommy may have been the only time I was ever truly in love.” She added that the sex tape was detrimental, adding, “It ruined lives, starting with our relationship…”
She later detailed the M?tley Crüe drummer’s jealousy issues. According to Anderson, he would trash her Baywatch trailer when he found out she had a love scene with former co-star David Chokachi, arrived on set in his Ferrari each day for “wife time,” and more. Anderson heartbreakingly wrote, “I thought that’s what love is.”
The pair later welcomed two sons named Brandon Thomas, born in 1996, and Dylan Jagger, born in 1997.
Anderson and Lee broke it off after a terrifying incident where Lee ended up being arrested for spousal abuse in 1998. Anderson said she was holding 7-week-old Dylan in her arms while Brandon played nearby. She was watching both of them when Lee walked up to her and said “‘I want my wife back.'” She told him to “grow up” and give her “some f***ing help around here … It’s not about you anymore.”
The Baywatch star said he “ripped Brandon off me and threw me and Dylan into a wall.”
She filed for divorce the next day to “protect her babies,” and the divorce was finalized a year later.
However, the two rekindled their romance in 2008, with Lee revealing that “Pamela and the kids have moved in with me.” He said, “It’s awesome, man. It’s definitely working. You can tell on the kids’ faces – they’re happy when we’re together.” They split again in 2010 for the final time.
Kelly Slater (1995, 1998-2000)
So, Pamela Anderson had a very complicated relationship with former co-star Kelly Slater. She said in her memoir, per Yahoo, “I met Kelly Slater on the set of Baywatch. He was my big love actually. He was such a sweetheart to me, and so good to me. I dated Kelly all the time. I mean, Kelly and I were together between lots of boyfriends and lots of girlfriends for him too, but it wasn’t just me.”
And here’s the thing: she was dating Slater when she was exchanging vows with Lee. She said to Metro, “I was dating Kelly Slater at the time and I was supposed to go see him in Florida and meet his family. My first phone call was him to tell him I was married. He’s like, ‘What?!’ That was horrible.”
Marcus Schenkenberg (2000-2001)
Pamela Anderson and Marcus Schenkenberg had a brief fling from 2000 to 2001, keeping a low profile throughout it all (even their short-lived engagement!) It’s said, per ABC News, that Anderson was attracted to how much he loved animals, once saving a bird from a toilet in Monaco.
Kid Rock (2001-2003, 2006)
Pamela Anderson then met Kid Rock backstage at a VH1 Divas Live tribute to Aretha Franklin in April 2001. They hit it off almost immediately, getting engaged soon after. However, she broke up with him in 2003, with Rock insinuating that Anderson didn’t want to move to Michigan and issues with the prenup, per InStyle.
But fast forward three years and in July 2006, she announced they were marrying on a yacht near Saint-Tropez, France. Tragically, Anderson miscarried soon after their wedding, and filed for divorce on Nov 2006.
Laurence Hallier (2005-2010)
Not much is known about Pamela Anderson and real estate tycoon Laurence Hallier’s relationship, despite being together on and off for five years. However, we know a lot about their messy fallout, because it involved not one, but two lawsuits.
Anderson claimed Hallier told her that if the development of the condos she planned on living in was delayed in any way, she would be given $1 million in cash. However, she never received said payment and sued so she could get that amount. Then, per Daily Mail, Hallier countersued for $22.5 million due to Anderson backing out on several appearances to publicize The Panorama Towers.
It was all settled for an unknown amount.
Rick Salomon (2007-2008, 2014)
After her split from Kid Rock, Pamela Anderson went on to meet Paris Hilton’s ex-fling Rick Soloman, and there was an instant connection. They married in Oct 2007 at The Mirage in Las Vegas, but separated and annulled the marriage only two months after.
However, Anderson and the poker player rekindled their romance almost exactly seven years later. They married again in Jan 2014 in Las Vegas, only to separate again less than a year later on Dec 13.
Anderson previously told W Magazine how she truly felt about her second marriage to Soloman. “I look back at pictures of myself when I was in this awful relationship, and I looked 20 years older,” she said. “I know it sounds like a cliché, but happiness has a lot to do with beauty. Calm, peacefulness and not-constant stress are very, very important to feeling beautiful.”
Jamie Padgett (2009-2010)
Back in 2009, Pamela Anderon met electrician and surfer Jamie Padgett when she was at a trailer park, staying there while her house was being renovated. They traveled the world together with Anderson’s kids (who he taught how to surf, per Surfer Today!) However, they ended up splitting in Jan 2010.
Adil Rami (2017-2019)
Pamela Anderson and French soccer player Adil Rami started dating in early 2017, keeping a low profile from the public eye. However, they broke up in June 2019, and Anderson seemed to hint at some serious issues with their relationship.
She accused him of infidelity, physical abuse, and “living a double life.” Per Fox, Anderson published emails allegedly between her and Rami’s ex Sidonie Biémont that detailed the abuse. Apparently, Rami told Biémont, whom he shared two children with, that he and Anderson were just friends, and that he and Biémont were over to Anderson.
Dan Hayhurst? ?(2020-2022)
Pamela Anderson and her bodyguard Dan Hayhurst? ?married on Christmas Eve 2020, in her backyard after some time together. She gushed about him to Daily Mail, saying, “I’m exactly where I need to be — in the arms of a man who truly loves me,” However, Anderson reportedly called it quits in 2021 because she “fell out of love.”