The Best Warming Lubes to Kick Things Up a Notch
A good lube is a must for just about everyone with a vagina. After all, dryness happens and having lubricant handy can make you ready for action again. Of course, there are different types of lubes to choose from, including warming lubes.
Experts say the best warming lubes can add a new dimension to your sex life. “Warming lube is typically used to increase blood flow to the genitalia—or nipples and anus,” says Debra Laino, D.H.S., a board-certified relationship therapist and sex educator. “With increased blood flow nerve endings are supposed to wake up making the area more sensitive to stimulation.”
Meet the Experts: Debra Laino, D.H.S., a board-certified relationship therapist and sex educator, Jess O’Reilly, Ph.D., creator of the Sex with Dr. Jess podcast and sex therapist, and women’s health expert Jennifer Wider, M.D.
Trying out different temperatures can be arousing, says sex therapist Jess O’Reilly, Ph.D., creator of the Sex with Dr. Jess podcast. “From the warmth of a slow breath to the cool sensation of pursed lips, just a slight change in temperature can create new, tingly sensations,” she says. “Adding a few drops of warming lube is a great way to change things up and inject something new into your routine without making big changes.” Many people also find that adding warming lube into the mix can heighten sensations across the skin—across the body from your lips to your collarbone and beyond, she says.
Using a warming lube may even help you reach orgasm faster and increase sensitivity, says women’s health expert Jennifer Wider, M.D. And, because it’s a lube, it can reduce friction “lowering the chance of tearing both in the vagina and in the anus,” Dr. Wider says.
Just a heads up with warming lube: This isn’t an every time kind of lube. “Do not use these every time you have sex as most contain glycerin which can cause irritation and yeast infections,” Laino says. It’s also a good idea to check the temperature on your hand first to see if it gets too warm for you, she says.
Ready to give warming lube a try? Consider these options.
K-Y
amazon.com
$7.99
KY Warming Jelly is a popular option, and Laino gives it the thumbs up. “It is non-greasy, so the cleanup isn’t bad and [it] will not stain sheets,” she says. “This one is a little thicker than other warming lubes, so it is great for anal stimulation.” Bonus: Because it’s made from glycol-based jelly, it’s safe to use with latex condoms. “I was surprised that it didn’t bother or burn my super-sensitive nether bits and skin,” shared a fan.
Wet
amazon.com
$9.99
Prefer your warming lube to be flavored? This option from Wet Warming Desserts tastes like chocolate chip cookies. “This one is sugar free but is great for oral sex,” Laino says. By the way, if chocolate cookies aren’t your thing, the lube also comes in flavors like frosted cupcake, cherry, and strawberry. A reviewer adds, “Love this! Makes the act so slick but not sticky & the flavor is not sickly sweet.”
Astroglide
amazon.com
$8.99
This warming lube has gentle spiciness, making it good for beginners. It’s also water-based and compatible with latex condoms. “Astroglide Warming is pretty clean and has no fragrance,” Laino says. “It is [made from] plant-based glycerin, which seems to be better for less irritation.” O’Reilly also notes that it has “a very subtle warming sensation.” One happy customer shared, “Slickest lube ever! Lasts a long time, feels wonderful, easy, fast clean up.”
On Arousal
amazon.com
$30.99
“All I can say is wow!” exclaims one fan. “It feels tingly in a good way. If you’re sensitive down there then you’re probably not going to like it. This helped me achieve orgasm and my orgasm was an explosion.” Sensuva’s ON arousal oil is technically an oil—not a lube—so you may want to pair it with a traditional lube for maximum wetness. It features botanical ingredients like cinnamon and sweet almond oil to get you revved up. Just apply it down there and wait for things to go to work, within a few minutes.
LUBILICIOUS PERSONAL WATER BASED LUBRICANT
amazon.com
$15.99
If you like warming lube, you want to have easy access to plenty of the stuff. Lubilicious has got you covered with a generous 8.5-ounce bottle. The lube is water-based, so it works well with latex condoms and personal toys. The pump is a nice perk, too—you don’t have to worry about fiddling with a cap in the heat of the moment. “This lube is great,” said a customer. “Gets warm after applied. Great scent. The best thing is that it lasts for a while and that warming sensation is awesome.”
Sliquid
amazon.com
$11.99
Parabens are artificial preservatives that are used to extend the shelf life of lube (and other products), and you may not want it in something you apply to your genitals. This warming lube from Sliquid is free of parabens and glycerin to make a non-toxic and hypoallergenic formula. It’s also water-based and water-soluble, making for easy cleanup. Reviewers love it too: “This is my all time favorite lube and has been for several years. Fewer and fewer companies are carrying it so when I find [it], I try to stock up.”
Wicked
adameve.com
$25.00
Silicone is known for its smooth slippery feel, and Wicked’s warming silicone lube manages to do just that. It features 100% pure silicone, along with cinnamon and vanilla extract for a warming feel. It also activates with more friction, giving you a longer lasting warming sensation. It’s safe to use with toys and can even be used during water play. “My partner and I went through a whole bottle in three sessions,” said a shopper. “It just made him feel so good that we just kept going. Need a bigger bottle!”
Intimate Earth
adameve.com
$22.95
This lube uses plant-based glycerin and cinnamon to give you a warm, slippery feel. It also contains the aphrodisiac horny goat weed, which is absorbed through your skin. Mojo has a honey flavor and is certified vegan. It’s also free of parabens and menthol. “This product warms with friction, and increases your overall pleasure,” shared a reviewer.
ID Glide
lovehoney.com
$9.99
There’s no reason you can’t take your lube on the go. ID Sensation’s warming liquid lubricant comes in a 2.5-ounce travel size, so you can pack it in your carry-on. It’s made with glycerin for a slick feel, and a little caffeine to pep things up down there. Reviewers like the tingle: “I have liked this lube along with the tingling on for many many years. Nice handy travel size.”
The Best Warming Lubes to Kick Things Up a Notch
A good lube is a must for just about everyone with a vagina. After all, dryness happens and having lubricant handy can make you ready for action again. Of course, there are different types of lubes to choose from, including warming lubes.
Experts say the best warming lubes can add a new dimension to your sex life. “Warming lube is typically used to increase blood flow to the genitalia—or nipples and anus,” says Debra Laino, D.H.S., a board-certified relationship therapist and sex educator. “With increased blood flow nerve endings are supposed to wake up making the area more sensitive to stimulation.”
Meet the Experts: Debra Laino, D.H.S., a board-certified relationship therapist and sex educator, Jess O’Reilly, Ph.D., creator of the Sex with Dr. Jess podcast and sex therapist, and women’s health expert Jennifer Wider, M.D.
Trying out different temperatures can be arousing, says sex therapist Jess O’Reilly, Ph.D., creator of the Sex with Dr. Jess podcast. “From the warmth of a slow breath to the cool sensation of pursed lips, just a slight change in temperature can create new, tingly sensations,” she says. “Adding a few drops of warming lube is a great way to change things up and inject something new into your routine without making big changes.” Many people also find that adding warming lube into the mix can heighten sensations across the skin—across the body from your lips to your collarbone and beyond, she says.
Using a warming lube may even help you reach orgasm faster and increase sensitivity, says women’s health expert Jennifer Wider, M.D. And, because it’s a lube, it can reduce friction “lowering the chance of tearing both in the vagina and in the anus,” Dr. Wider says.
Just a heads up with warming lube: This isn’t an every time kind of lube. “Do not use these every time you have sex as most contain glycerin which can cause irritation and yeast infections,” Laino says. It’s also a good idea to check the temperature on your hand first to see if it gets too warm for you, she says.
Ready to give warming lube a try? Consider these options.
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Warming lubes can help add a new element to the bedroom, but it can be hard to choose just one. These are the best warming lubes on the market.
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